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Childhood Trauma, Marriage, and Making Friends | Dr. John Delony | #307

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Dr. Jordan B. Peterson and Dr. John Delony discuss the destitution of loneliness, the salvation in connection, how to strengthen ties through listening, and why you should stop ignoring your flaws.

Dr. John Delony is a bestselling author, mental health expert, and host of The Dr. John Delony Show. This caller-driven show offers real people a chance to be heard as they struggle with relationship issues and mental health challenges. John gives practical advice on how to connect with people, how to take the next right step, and how to cut through the depression and anxiety that can feel so overwhelming. Delony has two PhDs and over two decades of experience in counseling, crisis response, and higher education. In 2020 Delony joined Ramsey Solutions, a powerhouse multi-media company that brings together top minds in topics such as finance, real estate, mental health, and overall well being. Through their platform they produce shows, lectures, events, documentaries, books, and more.

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(0:00) Coming Up
(1:19) Intro
(2:10) Story and the body
(6:47) Memory, a flawed canon
(10:04) Detailing anxiety
(11:59) Loneliness
(15:00) Sanity is distributed
(17:16) The need for friendship
(21:10) Ben Franklin, favors
(23:10) The Corner Store technique
(25:29) Teaching generosity
(28:35) Your life is what you repeat, focus on that
(30:41) Rebuilding a marriage
(37:09) Having a daily shared image
(45:05) Sex in marriage
(50:00) What do you actually want?
(55:08) Why you don’t know
(1:00:49) High ordered goals
(1:06:00) The greatest lost skill
(1:07:11) The difference between listening and looking to solve a problem
(1:16:10) Practical skills for listening
(1:20:33) Categorizing the problems in your world
(1:24:50) Seeking out your vulnerabilities
(1:27:48) the importance of confession
(1:31:40) Why labels are lackluster
(1:34:42) The small scale scales exponentially
(1:36:30) How we spread the movement

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  1. Insightful but for the fact that I haven't been in a romantic relationship in quite some time….
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  2. I said it before and I'll say it again: the man. the myth. the legend the GENIUS. Jordan B. Peterson
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  3. one of my fav interviews
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  4. Jordan Peterson and Dave Ramsey next please!
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  5. Victimitazion is being fed by political agenda
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  6. Do you really like your socks?🤣😂😁
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  7. Saved
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  8. Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i can't stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just can't, i love her so much, i don't know why i am bring this here for, i can't stop thinking about her!!
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  9. OMG! So excited that you two teamed up!
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  10. Let's say hypothetically you're the one with the ability to communicate and your partner isn't there….(yet) ( Or so they lead you to believe) but you wait for them to get to that point you put yourself out there you communicate your wants and needss vocalize without leaving anything to the imagination really Willing to wait because you're in love….. How much more do you put yourself out they're communicating your wants and needs being vulnerable while that person just plain out refuses to meet them or. Quite possible just doesnt get it. I honestly don't know how that could be possible but for sake of the argument. uses them to make you feel small.
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  11. Excellent talk, thank you both so very much!! Excellent ideas and conversation… I so want to know anything and everything I’m believing that is false … I’m going to keep trying no matter how many times I fail … I’ve learned so much from all my many failures… lots of new ideas come from failures too….journaling is healing and so soothing and getting to communicate deeply and genuinely well with someone is a pure gift 🌳
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  12. Listening to this a second time today – asked my wife to listen it with me… this is such a informative and honest discussion- that just brings up the things we all struggle with but think we are the only ones – amazing to hear that the solution is being open and honest with the one u love … talk spend time together 😊
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  13. Gah! Every time I hear JBP say you need to be in an intimate relationship to function effectively, I feel so distressed. I have been single for 4 years and haven’t found anyone I’d want to share my life with.
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  14. Which book of Dr.John Delony is Jordan Peterson talking about?
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  15. I just want my wife to wish me a good morning. My wife won't tell me good morning. She's says it's because she's not a morning person and she has never said it to anyone.
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  16. What if your trauma is being paralyzed in the middle of your life? this doesn't help or apply to these made-up childhood traumas. Also having not a "trauma" on childhood I got raped!
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  17. Thank you for such a helpful discussion. I believe our greatest hurts come through relationships, but so does our greatest healing. So, yes, we need to have company on our journey of healing and towards full health.
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  18. This was incredible, thank you. Much appreciated 🙏
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  19. "what do you want?" that's super easy for anyone that sits down and actually thinks about it (personally I want to live and not just exist)
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  20. For 18:36 to add that an intimate relationship is about emotional support and trust that allows one to express, test, experiment in a safe environment. Being part of safe team formed by the family that support you give the person an advantage in the outside world. This is relevant for all family members.
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  21. This man has helped me change my life and I've never ever met him ….. That blows my mind
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  22. Perhaps there is a possibility of a "Rules for Marriage", Dr.Peterson? 🙂
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  23. We've traded community for goals and achievements (although hilariously we could accomplish more with a community), and intimacy for convenience. Adults spend a lot of time busying themselves. How often have you heard someone say they're so busy they can't find time to connect?
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  24. Thank you both for this. God bless you both.
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  25. Gosh, I wish I had seen this a few months ago. Introverted, moved to a new area, already tried and failed at being familiar with a few people I see on a daily basis. Got the cold shoulder or the old side-eye. I'll try again, and do it your way Dr. Peterson.
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  26. I don’t ask for help because I needed a big favor. I asked months in advance and was told absolutely I got you. Days before this big event the person backed out. I understood due to the circumstances. But then found out this person made time to meet up with the man she was having an affair with. That was in 2019 and I haven’t asked for help since then. And if I do it’s my mom.
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  27. Why don’t you interview E Michael Jones seeing as you grift so much off his work? Disgusting 🤮
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  28. This may well have just changed my life.
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  29. Great podcast. Jordan saying “you don’t want any hot sex” made me laugh 😆.
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  30. Fantastic discussion! Thank you both!
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  31. Being a good person hold no value. Being perceived as a good person does… meaning that being immoral so I look moral is more valuable to most people then actually being moral. It’s extremely hard to be a moral person and stand by your convictions, with that said I would happy if people were just who they pretended to be. The world would be a great place
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  32. I feel the culture changed in the 80’s that generation born in the 60’s became extremely selfish and the value of being a good person and working at it got replaced with how I am perceived is more important then who I actually am. Also money got inflated with intelligence and morals so if you were financially successful it meant you were smart and morally righteous. I feel the younger generation has swung back into community and not being defined by their job and money but that generation (people who are 50-65 now) is the worst generation ever in America. Hands down. They were given the greatest economy ever, plenty of work and money for everyone, no one had to sacrifice anything ever, they didn’t value education because it didn’t matter. And then in the 2000’s the world changed and instead of working and evolving that generation cried and went on disability. Got a bunch of 55 yr old men blaming kids todays of being lazy when they have 2 degrees, 3 jobs, perfect credit, and can’t even get into an apartment with a co signer while they complain about not getting enough from disability because they broke their wrist in the 80’s….
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  33. 😇…planning brings up the fear of committing to your dreams…loosing your intuition…straying away from G*d vs getting nearer to your real purpose…unless your dreams are intuitive…😂
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  34. Luv these, truly appreciate Jordan's insight. Thank U
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